06022018

 

06022018

 

name of dream: party-goer's and friends

 

at a bus stop in the twilight hours

 

there was a bloke already at the bus stop when i got there

 

we started a chat

 

he said he was going to a party and wanted to know how to get there

 

i said i could take him there and could i go as well

 

he didn't exactly jump at the idea and hadn't committed himself when his girlfriend came into the dream

 

he told his girlfriend what i had said

 

she looked at me giving me the up and down and then asked me my name

 

there was umming and ahhing

 

before either of them said anything else i said "what sort of music will it be? "the girl asked "what sort of music do you like?" i said, "carl cox", she said "who's carl cox?"

 

a little demeaning was in order... i said "if you don't know who carl cox is i'm not sure i want to go"; i think they realised it was tongue-in-cheek demeaning

 

nothing had been settled when an awake-time friend from years before came into the dream and the two people already in the dream realised that it now meant that if i was going to go with them yet another person would have to tag along

 

the scene changed here, still early evening, to another bus stop !

 

his name was alan (also in dream 16122017) and we got to reacquainting ourselves

 

the girl and boy party-goer's left the dream; i was now engrossed in a conversation with alan

 

we had settled that he could sleep at my place and were still talking when his awake-time girlfriend from our teen days entered the dream

 

she was a pretty little thing, unassertive and desirous of having the right man in her life for all her life

 

she had found that person in alan

 

it meant that i would have to stay with another person for the night but that was never going to be a problems

 

on the way to my place i was talking twenty to the dozen and at one point i said something which would conclude with me saying his girlfriend's name

 

it wasn't until i had to say her name that i stopped dead and a slightly awkward empty pause occurred for all of us

 

of the three of uss alans girlfriend seemed affected by it most

 

i could, of course, remember her, although i can only ever remember ever speaking to her once, compared to her disposition i probably seemed brash, still she obviously thought i should have remembered it

 

i said "give me a clue"

 

she said something which referred to a colour and i said "hazel"

 

not getting it right didn't help things and she made a dismayed sound

 

the dream ended just after that

 

addenda

 

time-tense: 4, 5 (the most accurate time-tense placement yet.)

 

qod's 3.6

 

qos 3.7

 

participant

 

vividness: 3.3

 

second dream

 

name of dream: getting the feel of it

 

in a living room with a lady

 

the conversation touched on health

 

that was my cue to mention the benefits of exercising

 

at one point i suggested she had a little go at doing an exercise

 

she said o.k.

 

i produced a dumbbell that weighed a couple kilograms and showed her how to do a seated one arm shoulder press and suggested she do three of them

 

she had a go but was really struggling

 

i gave her few tips and coaxed her into doing another two

 

when she had finished i apologised for pushing her too hard but she was genuinely pleased with what she had done and i could tell she was feeling the blood rushing around in that part of her body and liked the feeing

 

addenda

 

time-tense: 3 or 4

 

qod's 3.3 - 3.2 - 3.4

 

qos 3.4

 

participant

 

vividness: 3.4

 

the stand-out part of the dreams:

 

the significance of the stand-out part of the dream:

 

category of dream: weight training (5)

 

cause/s of the dream:

 

notes 1

 

 

utility